Victorian mansions are defined and associated with their architectural grandeur.  That is the obvious feature that seems prominent. However, they might also conjure up macabre details of hauntings. Why is this so? Because human behavior and disciplinary protocols during that time were very harsh and austere. Etiquette was also very structured, detailed and enforced. It wasn’t all just crinolines, corsets and petticoats. Oh no, it was also chaperones, calling cards and social ostracism. Etiquette and architecture is what I think of when visiting a Victorian mansion.

Etiquette

Courtship required being chaperoned. Young females required constant chaperoning and if this was violated, it resulted in a ruined reputation where one fell prey to gossip and criticism. Women were encouraged to be bright and sparkly in conversation but never too intelligent. Gentlemen callers could bestow certain gifts upon their ladies but the approval list of items was very stringent. The various social ranks had strict rules upon whom you could be introduced to and who you could address.

Calling cards were an actual thing. They originated in France and made their way to Victorian society. This tradition helped secure one’s social status and how they ascended in societal ranks. The fashionable upper class announced their arrival to destinations with their calling cards. Sometimes the cards included coded messages. A lady’s carriage footman delivered the calling cards to the destination or recipient for the lady. Over the years, we continue to use the words calling card as slang.

Victorian etiquette was a very broad subject including the most specific of rules, boundaries and regulations. Where did all this social rank, etiquette and lifestyle take place? —in the foreboding Victorian homes, of course! In fact, the architecture of these home reflected the intricacies and ornamentation of their social behavior!

Architecture

Towers, turrets, dormers, and stained glass are just a few of the architectural details which were included in the beauty of a Victorian home. Ornate woodwork, 2-3 story floors, nooks, high ceilings and ornate staircases can all be found in the historic homes. Imagine turning a corner and finding a parlor nook where fainting couches elegantly allowed Victorian women to collapse and rest from the pressure of their binding corsets. Vaile Mansion

In Independence, Missouri, Vaile Mansion is a perfect example of Victorian architecture. Twenty minutes or so outside of Kansas City, you can find this unique town full of quirky architecture (modern and historic). Reportedly, there have been paranormal  investigations conducted at Vaile Mansion. (Check out their website for events.)

Road trips this year have connected us to Americana both visually and educationally as we can read up about the eras and cultural traditions which defined our country’s growth.

© Gina Michalopulos Kingsley